Kalonji Benefits

Kalonji is the harvest plant. In botany it is classified in Renunculcea family. Its stem is erect and branched. Its leaves are light green. On these leaves there are long downy hairs. It flowers are blue and white coloured and are in the shape of stars. On the top of calyx every branch bears one flower. The fruit of it is in the shape of half type (round) container in which small rough black granules are available. These seeds are called Kalonji in Urdu, black cumin in English, shoneez in Persian and Habatul Sauda in Arabic. The cultivation of this plant is in abundance in India, Bangladesh, Turkey and Eastern countries. The farming of this plant is made to achieve the new seeds. These seeds are used in food and medicine. These seeds have a special smell. In medical field Kalonji is used as an antiseptic medicine also. The seeds of Kalonji contain phosphorus, iron, and carbohydrate compound in abundance. After the chemical analysis of Kalonji seeds this fact has come to the light that it has carotene (yellowish substance). It converts into vitamin 'A' after inserting into the liver. Above all it contains so many compounds, which are useful in digestive system. It cures urinal diseases. It increases the resisting power of the body and has special strength in curing all types of diseases. Kalonji oil contains special type of fat ingredients Linolatic acid 60% and nearly 21% Lipase. It has capacity to keep the body cool in hot temperature. Mostly its seeds are used as medicine. Its seeds contain special substance Saponin Volatile oil and Nigelline a bitter tasting substance. These substances of Kalonji cure urinal problems.

Kalonji Oil Cures the Following Diseases:

Asthma, Cough, allergy: For the treatment of these diseases the following method is adopted. Take a cup of warm water, one spoon honey and half-teaspoon Kalonji oil. Mix together and drink in the morning before the breakfast. Similarly after dinner in the night treatment for 40 days. Avoid cool foodstuff.

Diabetes (sugar): For the treatment of this disease the following method is adopted. Take one-cup decoction (black tea) mix half-teaspoon Kalonji oil and drink it in the morning and before going to bed. Avoid oily foodstuff, particularly fried items. If any other allopathic treatment is going on, continue that treatment. After 20 days check sugar, if it is normal allopathic treatment should be stopped and Kalonji treatment be continued. After forty days, sweet can be taken to check your sugar level. If it is normal stop the treatment.

Heart Attack: In a cup of goat milk add half teaspoon of Kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day. Avoid all fatty food items. Continue treatment for ten days. After ten days use daily once.

Polio and Paralysis (Laqwa): Take one cup of warm water. Add one spoon of honey and half teaspoon Kalonji oil and use this mixture twice daily. And for children in two spoons milk add 3 drops of Kalonji oil and use this mixture three times a day. Treatment may continue forty days.

Joint-Pains and Arthritis, etc.: Take one spoon of vinegar and half teaspoon of Kalonji oil and mix two spoons honey, use twice a day (in the morning before breakfast and in the night after dinner)

Dyspepsia Indigestion, Gases, Stomach Irritation and Stomach Ache: In this stage one spoon of ginger juice add half-teaspoon Kalonji oil and drink twice a day. This treatment is also useful for removing obesity. This medicine makes the patient slim.

Ophthalmic Disease: Redness of eyes, cataract, eye's trouble, eye weakness and watering, etc. treatment - take one cup of carrots juice mixed with half tea spoon Kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (in the morning before breakfast and in the night after dinner. Treatment may continue for 40 days. Avoid pickle, brinjal, egg and fish.

Ladies Secret Diseases:(Leucorrhoea, white discharge, menses discharges 2 to 4 times a month, stomach pain, back pain). Take mint (pudina leaves) add two glasses of water and boil, then add half tea spoon Kalonji oil and drink one time in the morning before the breakfast and in the night at the time of going to bed. Treatment may continue for 40 days. Avoid pickle, brinjal, egg and fish.

Ladies Diseases: (Stoppage of menses for long term, stomach pain). Take one cup warm water add half-teaspoon Kalonji oil and two spoons honey and drink one time in the morning before breakfast and in the night after dinner. Treatment may continue for one month. Avoid potato and brinjal.

Cancer:(Intestine cancer, blood cancer, throat cancer, etc.) Take one glass grape juice add half-teaspoon kalonji oil and use thrice a day once in the morning before the breakfast, after lunch and after dinner. Take 1kg. Barley and 2kg. Wheat flour mix together make bread (roti) or daliya of harira and give to the patient. Treatment may continue for 40 days. Avoid potatoes, arvee, brinjal and ambada vegetable.

Poisonous Virus: Take one glass warm water, add one spoon date (Khajur) powder, half tea spoon Kalonji Oil and two spoons honey, mix together and use thrice a day. Treatment may continue for forty days. Avoid potato, brinjal grams, pulses (Chana ki dal & Masoor ki dal)

Vital of the Body (Azme-e-Hali): Take juice of orange (Malta) add half teaspoon Kalonji Oil and use it. Laziness and tiredness will be removed.

Memory Power: To increase the memory power take 10 gm. Mint (Pudina leaves) and boil it with the water and add half tea spoon Kalonji Oil and use it twice a day. Treatment for twenty- one days.

Reanalcoli (Kidney Pain): Take 250 gm. Kalonji, grind it and take one cup of honey, mix together. Out of this mixture take two spoons of mixture and add half-cup water and half teaspoon Kalonji Oil and use it once a day. Treatment may continue for twenty-one days.

Nausea or Vomiting: Take one spoon caration powder and half teaspoon Kalonji Oil and boil it. Now in this warm mixture and Mint (Pudina) and use thrice a day.

Freshness and Handsomeness: Take one spoon of Olive oil, mix together with half teaspoon Kalonji Oil and rub it on the face. After one hour wash it with soap water. Treatment may continue for one week.

General Weakness: Take half teaspoon Kalonji Oil and add one spoon honey. Mix together and use it once a day. General weakness and other diseases will be removed.

Treatment of Swelling on Vital Organ: On swelling below thigh and pulse, first wash it with soap water and dry. Rub the Kalonji Oil on the swelling part and keep it as it is for the next day morning. Treatment may continue for three days.

Leprosy: Take apple juice and Kalonji Oil. First rub apple juice and then Kalonji Oil one by one on the affected part.

Tumour: Rub the Kalonji Oil on the affected part and drink half teaspoon of kalonji Oil once. Treatment may continue for fifteen days.

Headache: Rub the Kalonji Oil on the fore head and near ears and also drink half teaspoon Kalonji Oil twice a day.

Chest Irritation and Stomach Trouble: Take half teaspoon of Kalonji oil mix with a cup of milk and use this mixture twice daily. Treatment may continue for three days.

Hiccups: Take one big spoon cream (Malai) mixed with two drops of kalonji Oil and drink in the morning and in the night. Treatment may continue for seven days.

Blood Pressure: In any hot drink tea / coffee and half teaspoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day also eat two cloves of garlic Daily.

Falling of Hair Prematurely: Rub limejuice on the head and leave it for fifteen minutes, then wash it with shampoo, after getting dried rub kalonji oil all over the head. Falling of hairs will be controlled within a week. Treatment may continue for one week.

Brain Fever: Allow the vapours of Kalonji oil to enter the body through breath. Take one lemon juice and half teaspoon Kalonji oil and use for 3 days twice a day. From fourth day half teaspoon kalonji oil in one cup of decoction twice a day.

Kidney Trouble, Infection in the Kidney: Take half teaspoon of kalonji oil, add 2 gm akar khara powder, and mix one spoon honey with one cup of water and drink. This treatment is also useful for chronic cough (purani khansi). Treatment may continue 21 days.

Stomach Ache of the Children: Take two drops of kalonji oil mix it with mother's milk or cow milk and give to the child. Kalonji oil also should be rubbed on the ribs.

Piles, Flow of Blood , Constipation: Take half teaspoon of kalonji oil mixed with one-cup decoction (black tea) twice a day (one in morning before the breakfast and in the night). Avoid hot and spicy items.

Skin Diseases - (White / Black Spots): In one cup of vinegar add half-teaspoon kalonji oil and apply that on the affected area before going to sleep and take bath in the morning. Treatment may continue until you get relief.

Simple Fever: Take half cup water and add half lemon juice mixed with half spoon kalonji oil and use it twice a day. Treatment may continue until you get relief. Avoid use of rice.

Round Worms and Tape Worms in the Stomach: Take half spoon vinegar mixed with half tea spoon of kalonji oil and use it twice a day and eat some coconut pieces. Avoid sugar preparation.

Stone in Kidney , Bladder and Uterus: Take one cup of warm water and add two spoon of honey mixed with half tea spoon of kalonji oil and use that twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and once in the night after dinner). Avoid tomatoes, spinach (palak), lemon, diet, curry leaves (kariyapak).

Epilepsy: Take on cup of warm water and add two spoons of honey, mix them and add half- teaspoon kalonji oil and use it twice a day. During this treatment cold food should not be taken. Avoid guava, banana, and fig for three years.

Ear Diseases, Ear Ache, Flow of Pus, Low Hearing: Heat the kalonji and let it cool and drop two drops of cooled kalonji oil in the ear.

Crack Hand and Foot with Blood Flow: Take one glass of sweet lime (mousambi) juice and add half teaspoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (in the morning before breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Avoid chicken, egg, brinjal use the herbal ointment made from kalonji.

Facial Problem, Pimples, Red Granules and any Type of Spots: Take one-cup orange mousambi (sweet lime) juice or pineapple juice and add half teaspoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Also use kalonji pimple cream for application. Treatment may continue for four weeks. Avoid hot eatable items.

Dental Diseases: Fall of teeth prematurely, weakness of the teeth, flow of blood from the teeth, bad smell of the mouth, swelling on gums. Take one cup of curd and half teaspoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and second time after dinner). Also use kalonji herbal tooth powder.

Male Related Diseases: Night fall: take one cup apple juice and add half tea spoon of kalonji oil and use this twice a day in the morning before the breakfast and in the night after dinner. Daily four drops of kalonji oil should be rubbed on the head. Treatment may continue for 20 days. Avoid hot or spicy eatable items.

Blood Deficiency (Anaemia) and Ulcer in the Intestine: Take a branch of mint (pudina leaves) mixed with water, boil it and make a cup of juice and add half tea spoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning and second time in the evening). Use curd always with food. Treatment may continue for 21 days.

Jaundice: Take a one-cup of milk and half teaspoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning and once after the dinner). Treatment may continue for one week. Avoid fatty and soar eatable items.

Swelling of Throat , Lungs Problems: Take one cup of warm water and add two-tea spoon honey and half teaspoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for 10 days. Avoid ice cream, ice water, coconut, lemon, orange and mousambi.

Cough: Take one cup of warm water add two spoons of honey mixed with half tea spoon of kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for two weeks. Avoid cold stuff items.

Heart Attack, Swelling on Breathing Veins:(Blockage of heart valves, breathing problem, cold sweating, pressure on heart). Take one cup of goat milk and half teaspoon of kalonji oil use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for 21 days. Avoid fatty items.

Maternity:(The mental weakness after child born, tiredness and bleeding related diseases) Take one cup of cucumber juice and half-teaspoon kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for 40 days.

Digestion Food, Colour of Face, etc.: Mix two spoon of ginger, half spoon of kalonji oil and one spoon of sugar and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for 10 days. Avoid gas-creating foods.

Burning Micturiation: Take one-cup sweet lime (Mosambi) juice and half teaspoon of Kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for 10 days. Avoid hot stuff items, chilli and soar food items.

Worms in the Stomach: Mix one spoon of vinegar with half-teaspoon Kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day (once in the morning before the breakfast and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for 10 days. Avoid sweets.

Joint Pains: (Swelling on ankle and other pains in the joints). Take one spoon vinegar and two spoon of honey and add half spoon of kalonji oil use this mixture twice a day and also massage with same oil. Avoid gas-producing elements.

Bald Headed: Rub Kalonji oil on the head twice a day and use a mixture of one cup of coffee mix with half-teaspoon oil and use it twice a day.

To Maintain Healthy Body: To wheat flour add half teaspoon of kalonji oil and make a roti and eat. Inshallah you will remain healthy.

Madness and Piles: Take half teaspoon of kalonji oil and mix with cold water and drink. If you mix the same oil with boiled water and let it cool and drink piles will be cured. For a snake poison same process should be adopted. Avoid guava, banana and sitaphal.

Toothpain and Swelling of Gums: Take one spoon vinegar and add half teaspoon of kalonji oil and apply on affected area for 2 or 3 minutes and rinse the mouth. Repeat this process twice a day. Treatment may continue for one week.

Severe Cold: Take half-cup water and half teaspoon of kalonji oil and quarter spoon of olive oil and mix together and filter. Put two drops of filter mixture into the mouth. This method is best for old cold. Continue this process twice a day.

Skin Disease Related to Pimples Boils, etc.: Before going to bed apply kalonji oil to the affected areas of the body and sleep. In the morning wash it with soap. This treatment may continue for 21 days.

To Keep The Face and Skin Smooth: Take two big spoon of honey and half spoon of kalonji oil and half spoon of olive oil and mix together. Use this process twice a day (once in the morning and in the night before going to bed). Treatment may continue for 40 days.

Piles: Take one spoon of vinegar and half teaspoon of Kalonji oil and apply on the piles. This process may be used twice a day.

Disease of Liver and Abdomen: Take 20 gm of honey and half teaspoon of kalonji oil and drink this mixture half in the morning before breakfast and half in the nigh before going to bed. Treatment may continue for one month.

Menstruations Problem: Take one spoon honey and mix with half teaspoon of Kalonji oil and drink one teaspoon in the morning before the breakfast and one teaspoon in the evening. Use this process for two weeks.

Any Type of Swelling: Heat required quantity of Kalonji Oil and apply on affected area. Half teaspoon of Kalonji oil to be consumed twice a day.

Poisonous Attacks: Eat two pieces of fig and take half spoon of Kalonji Oil and mix with two spoons of honey and drink, with this mixture you will be protected from snakebites. Don't allow the patient to sleep for four hours. Use this mixture for seven days.

High Temperature: Take half teaspoon of Kalonji oil with decoction (tea with out milk). Continue till temperature comes to normal.

Burns: 30 gms of olive oil and 5 gms of Kalonji oil, 15 gms of calamus (bunch) and 80 gms of mehendi leaves. Mix together and apply on affected parts.

Obesity: Half teaspoon of Kalonji Oil, two spoon of honey mixed in Luke warm water and take twice a day. Avoid taking rice.

Dandruff: Mix 10 gms of Kalonji Oil, 30 gms of olive oil, 30 gms of mehendi powder. Heat for a while. Apply after the paste becomes cool.

Sound Sleep: After dinner take half teaspoon of Kalonji Oil with one spoon honey, you will get sound sleep.

For Activeness: Take half teaspoon of Kalonji oil with honey daily before breakfast.

For Increasing Mother's Milk: One-cup milk with two drops of Kalonji oil in the morning before breakfast and before going to bed.

Leprosy, White Spot of any Kinds: Take half spoon of Kalonji Oil in one cup of orange juice and use this portion twice a day or take one spoon vinegar (home made) one-spoon honey and half spoon Kalonji oil mixed together and use this mixture twice a day. Treatment may continue until the symptoms disappear.

Skin Disease: In one cup of vinegar add half-teaspoon Kalonji oil and apply this mixture on the effected areas before going to sleep and take bath in the morning. Treatment may continue until you get relief.

Stomach Pain (All types): In the glass of sweat lime (mousambi) juice add two spoons of honey and half teaspoon Kalonji oil and use this mixture twice a day. Avoid all gas producing elements. Treatment may continue for 20 days.

Stone in Kidney: In a cup of warm water add two tea spoons honey and half tea spoon Kalonji Oil, dilute and use this mixture twice a day. Avoid spinach, lemon, sweat lime (mousambi), tomatoes. This treatment should continue until the stone is discharged.

From Head Head to Toe: Mix one cup of orange juice with half teaspoon Kalonji Oil, take before break fast and bedtime. Treatment is for four months.

Falling of Hair Prematurely: Rub the limejuice on the head and leave it for 15 minutes then wash it with shampoo, after getting dry rub Kalonji oil all over the head. Falling of hair will be controlled within a week. Treatment is for one week or as required.

Swelling of Stomach: Mix 3 gms of Ajwan, 3 gms methi, 4 drops of Kalonji oil together. Take the mixture before breakfast and after dinner. Avoid potatoes and sweet items.

Joint Pains, Back Ache & Neck Pain: Eat two pieces of dry fig and add 4 drops of Kalonji oil in one cup of milk. Do not eat anything till two hours. Treatment is to be continued for 2 months. Avoid potatoes, tomatoes, green chillies and bottled gaud.

Persistent Cough: Mix 10 gms of Akal Kara, 200 gms honey, and 100 gms Kalonji oil together. Take the mixture one spoon thrice a day. Restrict from ice cream, fridge water, and custard apple. Treatment is for 40 days.

Soriasis: Mix, juice of six limes with 50 gms of Kalonji oil together, rub on the affected places.

Uterus Problems: ? bunch of pudina juice, 2 spoon of misri powder, ? teaspoon of Kalonji oil, mix and use before breakfast. This treatment is for 40 days.

Stammering: Mix half spoon of Kalonji oil in 2 spoons of honey and keep it on the tongue twice a day.

Breathe deep

It sounds bizarre but taking a few deep breaths a day can drop your chances of developing pneumonia. When you have a free moment or so, practise deep belly breathing. Take breaths that make your belly puff out (hold for three counts and inhale for three counts). Gradually, you'll learn to breathe better throughout the day.

10 Foods reduce blood pressure

1 Apricot dried Apricots are helpful in lowering high blood pressure as well as relieve constipation.

2 Avocados They have good sources of potassium and thus helps regulate blood pressure.

3 Bananas Banana is extremely potassium rich and potassium is a mineral which helps maintain blood pressure.

4 Beets Beetroots are used as a treatment for constipation and its juice is used to lower high blood pressure. According to a study drinking 500 ml of beetroot juice helps lower blood pressure within an hour.

5 Broccoli Broccoli is high in glutamic acid which is helpful in reducing blood pressure.

6 Figs Figs are rich in fiber as well as potassium so dried figs act as a laxative and helps control blood pressure.

7 Garlic Garlic is said to lower blood pressure. Some say garlic if taken as roasted can help reduce the high blood pressure.

8 Mangoes Mangoes are rich in potassium which is key mineral for lowering high blood pressure.

9 Mushrooms Mushroomshelp lower high blood pressure.

10 Watermelon The juice of watermelon is said to be effective for high blood pressure.

People who suffer from high blood pressure should limit the salt intake in their food.

Some other foods that help in relieving constipation are

Spinach spinach is considered to be helpful in regulating bowel movements. Fresh spinach boiled and taken early in the morning is considered to be useful for relieving constipation.

Some other foods that help regulate blood pressure are

Limes, Lemons, Chestnuts and Cantaloupe.

Manage Stress with a Positive Attitude

Maintaining resilience and combating stress are major issues for a man. There is a natural tendency in all of us to react emotionally when our expectations are frustrated in any way. When something we wanted and hoped for fails to materialize, we feel a temporary sense of disappointment and unhappiness.

The optimistic person, however, knows how to manage stress in difficult situations and soon moves beyond this disappointment. He responds quickly to the adverse event and interprets it as being temporary, specific and external to himself. The optimist responds with a positive attitude, knows how to manage stress and counter the negative feelings by immediately reframing the event so that it appears positive in some way.

Since your conscious mind can hold only one thought at a time, either positive or negative, if you deliberately choose a positive thought to dwell upon, you keep your mind optimistic and your emotions positive. Since your thoughts and feelings determine your actions, you will tend to be a more constructive person, and you will start moving forward and more rapidly toward the goals that you have chosen.

It all comes down to the way you talk to yourself on a regular basis. In our courses of problem solving and decisions making, we encourage people to respond to problems by changing their language from negative to positive. Instead of using the word problem, we encourage people to use the word situation.  You see, a problem is something that you deal with. The event is the same. It’s the way you interpret the event to yourself that makes it sound and appear completely different.

Even better than situation is the word challenge. Whenever you have a difficulty, immediately reframe it, choose to view it as a challenge, and start moving forward.  Rather than saying, “I have a problem,” say, “I have an interesting challenge facing me.” The word challenge is inherently positive. It is something that you rise to that makes you stronger and better. It is the same situation, only the word that you are using to describe it is different.

The best of all possible words to maintain a positive attitude and manage stress is the word opportunity. When you are faced with a difficulty of any kind, instead of saying, “I have a problem,” you can say, “I am faced with an unexpected opportunity.”  And if you concentrate your powers on finding out what that opportunity is—even if it is only a valuable lesson—you will certainly find it. As the parable says, “Seek and ye shall find, for all who seek find it.”

Tips to Manage your stress:

• Change your perception. You must learn how to form healthier attitudes and beliefs by knowing what your personal strengths are, letting go of what you can’t control, and branch out to your support network. Your support network could be anything - a blog or an online friend or group that are easily accessible.
• Eat better. Make sure you are eating a healthy, balanced diet. It will not only make you feel better physically, but can help combat stress-related problems.
• Work out. Exercising does more than help you look trimmer; it also fights stress. When you are exercising you are releasing endorphins which help to give you a more upbeat outlook. It also gives you a healthy outlet to dissipate tension and mental fatigue. One way to incorporate exercise into your work day is to leave your computer for 30 minutes and go for a walk outside; the fresh air will help clear your head.
• Stop. Smell the roses. It is difficult to relax when you are consumed with stress, therefore you must find something that relaxes you. Find different relaxation and meditation methods that will oppose your body’s reaction to stress which can help you calm down. Relax on the computer by listening to music, looking at old photos, or even searching YouTube for funny videos, anything that frees your mind.
• Take time to make time. Time management is key. If you have a lot of things to do, don’t spend time worrying about what you have to do. Make a schedule for yourself and try to stick to it. Prioritizing will help you replace mere activity with accomplishment. Make a list on your computer or use the scheduling reminders on OutLook to help stay organized.
• Learn about different behavior styles. In other words, 'Don’t poke the bear'. Be armed with a better understanding of behavior styles that differ from your own. Many of our IT clients are mainly left-brained. This could mean that they are more likely to be orderly, analytical (especially factual analysis), sequential, or logical in their thinking. Knowing small things like this about your co-workers can help you approach workplace problems.
• Be assertive. Have confidence! When you stand-up for yourself, you are building your self esteem which pushes stress to the side. See where you can improve in the assertive, aggressive, and passive behaviors.

In order for any of these steps to work you must be proactive. You must take care of yourself in order to maintain your resilience.

How to reduce stress

Find out the reason behind stress,


Common symptoms are dry mouth, clammy hands, racing heart, feeling tense, tiredness, headaches, digestive problems, loss of sex drive, sleep problems, skin outbreaks, irritability, poor concentration and difficulty in making decisions, started to feel restless,

If you are extremely tense and anxious, you should try to establish why. Learning how to manage stress will only do half the job if you don't try to sort out its source. There is a limit to the amount of stress we can take. Too much stress can leave us open to physical and mental problems - or even cause a breakdown, you should not ignore the symptoms.
once u identify the reason behind stress then it would easy for you to get rid.

Not all stress can be avoided, and it’s not healthy to avoid a situation that needs to be addressed. You may be surprised, however, by the number of stressors in your life that you can eliminate.

1. earn how to say “no” – Know your limits and stick to them. Whether in your personal or professional life, refuse to accept added responsibilities when you’re close to reaching them. Taking on more than you can handle is a surefire recipe for stress.
2. Avoid people who stress you out – If someone consistently causes stress in your life and you can’t turn the relationship around, limit the amount of time you spend with that person or end the relationship entirely.
3. Take control of your environment – If the evening news makes you anxious, turn the TV off. If traffic’s got you tense, take a longer but less-traveled route. If going to the market is an unpleasant chore, do your grocery shopping online.
4. Avoid hot-button topics – If you get upset over religion or politics, cross them off your conversation list. If you repeatedly argue about the same subject with the same people, stop bringing it up or excuse yourself when it’s the topic of discussion.
5. Pare down your to-do list – Analyze your schedule, responsibilities, and daily tasks. If you’ve got too much on your plate, distinguish between the “shoulds” and the “musts.” Drop tasks that aren’t truly necessary to the bottom of the list or eliminate them entirely. 

If you can’t avoid a stressful situation, try to alter it. Figure out what you can do to change things so the problem doesn’t present itself in the future. Often, this involves changing the way you communicate and operate in your daily life.

 

1. Express your feelings instead of bottling them up.  
2. Be willing to compromise.
3. Be more assertive. 
4. Manage your time better.
5. Reframe problems.
6. Look at the big picture. 
7. Adjust your standards.
8. Focus on the positive.
9. Try to control yourself
10. Try to be optimistic 
11. Share your feelings
12. learn forgive and forget
13. don't sit alone
14. Keep your sense of humor 
15. Eat healthy diet
16. avoid smoking and drugs  
17. Try to make you feel happy 

What does it mean by healthy life style?

Here is one Question which always scratching your mind but you are not able to answer even yourself. No smoking ,no alcohol, healthy weight ,doesn’t sounds healthy life style. You need to more concentrate on your life style.

You need to change small things in your life.

Now a day we have biggest problem, we are not so active as we should be,most of people afraid of exercise

Just add moments in your life can get rid….

1.      Reduce the risk of heart disease, stroke and diabetes

2.      Improve joint stability

3.      Increase and improve range of movement

4.      Help maintain flexibility as you age

5.      Maintain bone mass

6.      Prevent osteoporosis and fractures

7.      Improve mood and reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression

8.      Enhance self esteem

9.      Improve memory in elderly people

10.  Reduce stress

 One study has found that just a 10% weight reduction helped obese patients reduce blood pressure, cholesterol and increase longevity. 

Simple Ways to Move Your Body

You can start the process of weight loss now by adding a little more activity to your life. If you're not ready for a structured program, start small. Every little bit counts and it all adds up to burning more calories.

• Turn off the TV. Once a week, turn off the TV and do something a little more physical with your family. Play games, take a walk...almost anything will be more active than sitting on the couch.
• Walk more. Look for small ways to walk more. When you get the mail, take a walk around the block, take the dog for an extra outing each day or walk on your treadmill for 5 minutes before getting ready for work.
• Do some chores. Shoveling snow, working in the garden, raking leaves, sweeping the floor...these kinds of activities may not be 'vigorous' exercise, but they can keep you moving while getting your house in order.
• Pace while you talk. When you're on the phone, pace around or even do some cleaning while gabbing. This is a great way to stay moving while doing something you enjoy.
• Be aware. Make a list of all the physical activities you do on a typical day. If you find that the bulk of your time is spent sitting, make another list of all the ways you could move more--getting up each hour to stretch or walk, walk the stairs at work, etc.

Eating Well

Eating a healthy diet is another part of the healthy lifestyle. Not only can a clean diet help with weight management, it can also improve your health and quality of life as you get older.

 Eat more fruit. Add it to your cereal, your salads or even your dinners.

• Sneak in more veggies. Add them wherever you can--a tomato on your sandwich, peppers on your pizza, or extra veggies in your pasta sauce. Keep pre-cut or canned/frozen veggies ready for quick snacks.
• Switch your salad dressing. If you eat full-fat dressing, switch to something lighter and you'll automatically eat less calories.
• Eat low-fat or fat-free dairy. Switching to skim milk or fat free yogurt is another simple way to eat less calories without having to change too much in your diet.
• Make some substitutes. Look through your cabinets or fridge and pick 3 foods you eat every day. Write down the nutritional content and, the next time you're at the store, find lower-calorie substitutes for just those 3 items.

Creating a healthy lifestyle doesn't have to mean drastic changes. In fact, drastic changes almost always lead to failure. Making small changes in how you live each day can lead to big rewards, so figure out what you can to be healthy today.